Welcome back to the Create Your Happy blog! This week on the blog and podcast, I’m sharing about a topic that hits close to home for many of us – people pleasing. I’m Christy Holt, your one and only Happiness Hussy, and I’m here to guide you through the messy yet beautiful adventure of embracing your authentic self.
The Trap of People Pleasing
People pleasing is more than just being nice; it’s a cycle of seeking external validation and acceptance that leaves you feeling drained and unfulfilled. It often stems from childhood experiences and societal conditioning, where being the ‘good girl’ or ‘good boy’ meant putting others’ needs ahead of our own. But at what cost?
The Real Cost of People Pleasing
When we constantly contort ourselves to please others, we sacrifice our own happiness. We end up feeling burnt out, unhappy, and lonely. It’s a never-ending cycle where our desire to be loved, accepted, and belong only leads to disappointment and resentment.
The Turning Point: Embracing Authenticity
Here’s the truth – you can’t please everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. It’s crucial to please yourself first. By aligning with your true self, you attract the right people who love and accept you for who you are. This shift from pleasing others to pleasing yourself is the essence of living authentically.
The Journey to Self Discovery
The path to overcoming people pleasing starts with awareness. Ask yourself, “Is this what I really want to do?” before saying yes to anything. Learn to respond with intention rather than reacting out of habit or the desire to please.
Tools for Transformation
To help you on this journey, I’ve created two powerful resources:
- People Pleasers Path to Freedom: This free ebook and masterclass are designed to show you how to break free from people pleasing patterns, prioritize your needs, and embrace self love.
- Authenticity Unleashed Program: A comprehensive guide to building unshakable self-trust and forging deep, genuine connections. This program is your roadmap to embracing vulnerability and creating a life you love.
The Promise of Authentic Living
Living authentically means choosing happiness, success, and love on your terms. It’s about creating space to respond with intention and forging relationships that make you feel truly happy.
Recovering from people pleasing is a liberating gift. It allows you to create relationships that are fulfilling and joyful. Remember, every step on this journey towards embracing your true self is worth it. You deserve to create your happy!
Join me in this adventure, and let’s transform your relationships from the inside out. If you’re ready to take back your power and step into your authentic self, check out my resources and get ready to do some epic shit!
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Stay tuned for more relationship goodness. Next up, I’ll be exploring the illusions of perfection and how to embrace your authentic self in a world where perfection is just an illusion. Stay connected for more empowering insights and resources! To explore more about breaking free from people pleasing and embracing your authentic self, check out the additional resources below.
Additional Resources for Relationship Building
Find freedom from people pleasing! To get your free copy of the “People Pleasers Path to Freedom” ebook and masterclass, click here.
Authenticity Unleashed Program: This program is perfect for those looking to set healthy boundaries and communicate them effectively, especially if you’ve been caught in the “you complete me” trap. Enroll today!
Find your f*cking ZEN in under 5 minutes! 🧘♀️ Check out these FREE unique, no-BS meditations that are as fun as they are effective. Tap into your inner calm today!
Ebook “Relationship Cheat Codes: A Guide to Nurturing Love and Connection”: Discover how to level up your relationships with these 10 secret codes. Get your ebook for free here.
Unstuck for Women Daily Self Discovery Journal: This journal is your roadmap to self acceptance, a crucial step in finding a relationship that truly honors you. Get yours now!
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